Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Why 1 is not enough?

I was dumbstruck when my mom told me that my best friend's father adding another woman in his life. In total he has 2 wives now. i've known my best friends since we were in std 2 or 3 and were very close till marriage do us part.. err..we were not really parting as we still sometimes keep in touch. And she doesn't even know i know about the news. I think when man comes to certain age, arnd 40+ to 60 and when they have xtra money.. they tend to find additional happiness. And the additional happiness is by starting a new life with someone else.. to bring the excitement to the life like old days, I always wonder why 1 is not enough. human is very complex life- being ever.. he has got everything, the happy family, the professional profession one could have ever dream of, successful kids, everything is so fine.. but yet i assume he felt all that not enough for him.. i might be wrong.. but sometimes ppl are just not thankful for what they have in life... that is us, Human being, never be contented with what we have..


3 comments:

megattaufiq said...

Life is not always full of wonders as you might think. When you go out, you'll see the other side of it. When you go out further, you found new things in life, and the one you've seen before is part of your "normal". Most people learn by theory, and fail to learn the reality since it is always becoming hidden side of ignored entity. Full of suffering, conspiracy, unhappiness, pain, deprivation and horrific. Yet, people put happiness on trivial things and ignore the rest. Just watched "The road to Guantanamo". Just watched "The Death of Gaza". Just Watched "Occupation101". These are the reality & it shaped me. Try to watch those. Insyaallah it will shape yours too. Peace.

jazjab said...

Sabar put sabar....
Itukan dah hukum-hakam Allah...
siapa kita untuk mempersoalkannya...

all that we can say is..
"Hukum Allah adalah yang terbaik tapi suami ku hanya boleh berkahwin satu shj..." - please refer back to ceramah/writing on poligami by Ustaz Ismail Kamus....

Tinta Hawa said...

additional happiness or additional missery? heheh..